I don’t leave my personality at the door when therapy starts. The curiosity, humor, warmth, expressiveness, and occasional “what the fuck?” you’ve seen on this page are coming with me.
And you don’t have to leave yourself at the door either. You can laugh, cry, ramble, change your mind, disagree with me, not know what you’re trying to say yet, or show up having a weird fucking day. You don’t have to become some polished “therapy version” of yourself here.
Therapy is a relationship. I want you to feel like you’re having a conversation with someone who’s genuinely present and invested in the work we’re doing together. I’ll ask questions, share observations, and stay curious about your values, identity, and what feels like yours.
My approach is collaborative, curious, and person-centered. Together, we explore how your identity, experiences, emotions, values, relationships, and choices connect. Sessions might include reflective conversation, practical skills, and, when it fits, creative exercises, metaphors, music, or writing as another way to get curious.
And I bring the therapist part, too: assessment, clinical judgment, practical skills, accountability, and sometimes a question or challenge that isn’t easy. You keep a say in your goals and choices; I contribute professional knowledge and guidance, not just agreement. This is a real therapeutic relationship, with boundaries—not friendship or unlimited access.